MARRIAGE MAHAR TO MINIMIZE THE LOW RATE OF MARRIAGE IN ACEH PIDIE, INDONESIA
Roswita Sitompul1, Alesyanti2, Nurul Hakim2
1Universitas Islam Sumatera Utara (UISU), Indonesia 2Universitas Muhammadiyah Sumatera Utara (UMSU), Indonesia
Abstract
Marriage is a ceremony to worship God, God’s covenant to uphold the law, in order to build household sakinah (peacefull), mawaddah (hope) and wa-rahmah (full of love). Marriage can avoid someone from disobedience, and prevent people from not comply with customary law. But when a person want to carry out an intention to get married, they often hit by costs to be incurred, in the form of higher provisions outlined in mahar (the property given by the groom to the bride at the time of marriage). This phenomenon is also widespread in Aceh Pidie regency, one of Indonesia provinces. The value of mahar in Aceh Pidie occupies the second highest score in Indonesia after Sulawesi. Mahar in Aceh Pidie is attributed to gold measured in mayam. Mayam itself is referring to a kind of gold dosage prevailing in the people of Aceh. If converted with grams, one Mayam is estimated to be worth about 3.33 grams. Now, the price of one mayam is close to one million eight hundred thousand rupiah. Please imagine a marriage mahar provisions in Aceh Pidie set to 50-70 mayam. What a expensive price that should be paid by the prospective bridegroom to engaged a woman. A man should provide funds of 90 to 126 million, and it does not include premium amenities and asoe talam (a set of suit). This is a very urgent problem on customary rules, which can not be regarded as a fairness. This issue needs to be handled very carefully. We can examine and give contribution to handling it. Departing from the fact, this study aims to find an alternative to the concept and application of the marriage mahar in Aceh Pidie. Mahar who arbitrates “shall”, which makes the people of Aceh Pidie choose not to obey much and they choose to the road elope or kawin lari, locked horns with traditional leaders that impact disharmony cultural order within existing communities. The most severe course can also occur, such as sex outside of marriage because the delay time of the wedding, as a consequence of unmet mahar.
Keywords: mahar; marriage; Islamic law
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Factors Cause Understanding Level of Low Soft Skill for Political Party Members and its Socialization Through Website
Roswita Sitompul1*, A Alesyanti2, H Hartono3, Robbi Rahim4
1Faculty Law, Universitas Islam Sumatera Utara, Medan, Indonesia 2Department of Criminal Law Faculty of Law Science, Universitas Muhammadiyah Sumatera Utara, Medan, Indonesia 3Department of Computer Science, STMIK IBBI, Medan, Indonesia 4Department of Management, Sekolah Tinggi Ilmu Manajemen Sukma, Medan, Indonesia
Abstract
This research is very urgent given the condition of our country today, where there are many anarchist actions, social conflicts, bad language and un-courtesy, and the lack of values, and culture. Indonesian people who are accustomed to behave in a manner, imple- ment consensus in solving problems, have local wisdom that is rich with plurality, and tolerance and mutual cooperation begin to tend to be hegemonic groups that beat each other and behave dishonestly. All of this affirms that there is uncertainty of identity and character of the nation which leads to (1) disorientation and not yet fulfilled the values of Pancasila as the philosophy and ideology of the nation, (2) the limitations of integrated policy instruments in realizing the essence values of Pancasila, (3) (4) waning awareness of the nation’s cultural values, (5) the threat of disintegration of the nation, and (6) the weakening of the nation’s independence. Are not all these behaviors widely exhibited by this large political party in Indonesia and the Nationalist as the basis for the founding and the purpose of his party. The result of this research was expected to be known to many people through socialization by using the website
Keywords: Political party, soft skill, character, Website
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Legal Protection for Children Born from Unregistered Marriage in Medan City and Its Socialization Through Website
Roswita Sitompul1*, A Alesyanti2, H Hartono3, Robbi Rahim4
1Faculty Law, Universitas Islam Sumatera Utara, Medan, Indonesia 2Department of Criminal Law Faculty of Law Science, Universitas Muhammadiyah Sumatera Utara, Medan, Indonesia 3Department of Computer Science, STMIK IBBI, Medan, Indonesia 4Sekolah Tinggi Ilmu Manajemen Sukma, Medan, Indonesia
Abstract
Children is the hope of the nation that must be fought for, protected and guaranteed for its future. The State’s survival depends on the young generation of today, so the child must be legally protected, not to mention children born of unregistered marriages. From the biological side of the child is the biological child of both parents, only the marriage of both parents are not registered under applica- ble law. This research is normative juridical which is descriptive which its data collecting is done by questioner, interview, observa- tion, population of purposive sampling which is related to this research. The results show that there is no legal protection for children born from unregistered marriage, especially the right to welfare, education, decent living, although there are many regulations that regulate the rights of children but not touched, even in reality in terms of practice there is discrimination of children , the government should establish a new regulation to regulate legal protection for children born of unregistered marriages. So we do not hear anymore, the suffering that children experience with their future as a result of the discrimination of the State’s treatment of Unregistered chil- dren. The result of this research was expected to be known to many people through socialization by using the website
Keywords: Legal protection, Discrimination, Unregistered marriage, Website
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